The Soul Mate curriculum teaches teens and young adults how to prepare for a healthy, long-lasting relationship and emphasizes the importance of remaining abstinent until marriage. To get your school or college involved in this program, contact our School Coordinators,
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Below is an example from the Soul Mate workbook that tests the strengths and weaknesses of a relationship. Click on the sentence that best describes your relationship, then calculate your score to find out if you and your partner are truly in Love!
Infatuation
Love
1. Time
We have been together for less than 24 months.
We have been together for 24 months or more.
2. Knowledge
I only know how he/she makes me feel, not a whole lot about him/her.
I know all about him/her: life, goals, values, likes, dislikes, background, character, etc.
3. Focus
I find I am still attracted to other people.
I have not experienced feelings of attraction toward others.
4. Trust
I experience some jealousy when he/she is with other people.
I have grown to trust him/her.
5. Priority
I am constantly concerned about how the relationship is affecting me.
I enjoy actively working for the benefit and well-being of the other person.
6. Problems
We have not really faced problems in our relationship.
We have faced a number of problems in our relationship and have worked together towards their solution.
7. Separation
We spend most of our time together and have not really be separated for periods of time.
We have experienced times of separation from one another and have grown closer as a result.
8. Attraction
Physical attraction is the strongest part of our relationship.
Physical attraction is a part of our relationship, but not the dominant reason we are together.
9. Feelings
I get "funny feelings" every time we're together. I can't do anything but think about him/her constantly.
We enjoy just being together; we also enjoy our own activities and friends.
10. Family & Friends
My family and best friends have not met him/her; or (if they have met) they have reservations about us.
My family and best friends have met him/her and support our relationship.
